The Bible is full of promises given to man by God. We have discussed that one of those promises is that God will give us what we ask for in prayer. However, there are times when we petition God that we do not receive the request. Some may feel hurt, disappointed, angry, and disillusioned with God. Others may feel confused, wondering, “Why didn’t God give me what I asked for?”In this post, we will examine three reasons (though God ultimately determines it) why God may reject our requests in prayer.
1.Passion – We have determined that sin may not always determine a negative response. However, if we ask only to satisfy our carnal and selfish passions (lusts or desires), God will reject our requests. (James 4:2-3)
It is true that God will grant us the desires of our heart. Yet, some requests that we make are only to satisfy the flesh. Therefore, God may say “No” to certain requests because they are to make our lives convenient, rather than being a necessity.
2. Proper Time – Another reason for God saying “No” is timing. You may have the right request, but the wrong timing. In this instance, God’s No is only for the moment. Yet, it becomes difficult to accept this when the situations are dire.
When bills are due, appointments are set, and illnesses worsen, we feel that God should do something immediately. Since God sits outside of time, He knows all things and the outcome. He knows how to deliver and answer in a timely manner(Galatians 4:4). However, the time of the answer or deliverance is determined of the Father. God will give certain requests when it is “time.” Until then, we have to accept God’s “No”.
3. Purpose – God is a God of purpose. If God says “No”to us because of it, we must discover what purpose is and why is it important.
Purpose: Something set up as an object or end to be attained. Something that is proposed. An Intent or will. In terms of the Lord, purpose is the predestined plan and will of God.
As we consider some truths concerning purpose, we will understand why God says “No” to us at times. We have to remember that Purpose comes with Permanence. When our requests will take us off the path of our purpose in God, He will deny our request. We must understand that God’s purpose for our lives is more than the fulfilling of an assignment. Therefore, if our request will affect His predestined plan for our lives and ministries, He will say “No.”
Also, Purpose Demands Patience. Because of purpose, God is patient with us. Even when we are disobedient to Him, He knows what we will become in Him (2 Timothy 1:9). Purpose causes God to be patient with us. Moreover, purpose demands patience from us. We have to be patient with the Lord as His plan for our lives unfolds. (Hebrews 6:12)
In addition, Purpose comes with Promise. If we submit to God’s purpose, which includes His “No,” we have the promise of success in Him (Romans 8:28). It is impossible for God to lie (Hebrews 6:18). If we pursue God’s purpose for our lives, it comes with the promise of His presence, power, and peace. However, in order for us to fulfill purpose, God will say “No” to us. Jesus had to endure God’s “No,” when He wanted to be delivered from the crucifixion. Jesus endured it because of the promise of His Father (Hebrews 12:2). Jesus knew His acceptance of God’s “No” resulted in the fulfillment of purpose. This was His joy because men would be saved. We should remember His example.
There you have it! Three reasons why God may say “No” to certain requests. We can stand in faith in prayer trusting that God does hear us. However, if His response is “No,” it is only to bless us and prosper us.
Until next time, remain faithful to Him who has called you, who will bring all things to pass. I have addressed this topic in detail in my book, “When God Says “No” – Understanding the Fatherhood of God, which can be found at Amazon.com.
Roderick,
It is nice to visit a site that has very practical lessons for difficult questions. Too often the answers I hear fall in the category of, “Just pray it through, brother, and see that God is faithful.” About the time I hear “pray it through” I’ve already tuned out.
Naturally, I like your writing because it is a bit like mine — if you can’t make a point that people can use, why write? If I cant’ challenge them to think beyond themselves; encourage them in Christ-likeness; support them when times are difficult or give them hope for a better future, I try not to write anything. Too many Christian blogs are little more than people whining about their problems or trying to tell someone else the multitude of reasons they are wrong.
I see that you have a plethora of books out. That’s great. I’m trying to get ONE book published, but this is a tough time in the publishing world. But as your blog said, God’s “No” may be more of a God’s Timing issue than a refusal to answer my prayer. Besides, it is always too soon to give up hope.
Blessings on you and your ministry.
Jim
Just like every parent who loves their children, God always wants the best for us. If he says no, then He has a purpose for that.