What do women really want from their men? When a woman looks for a spouse or mate, what characteristics does she find attractive or repulsive? Depending on the woman’s background and past experiences, it may seem as if she does not know what she wants. Regardless of all the contributing factors to a woman’s preference in a spouse or mate, I believe there are 4 personality types that every woman wants her man to have.
I. THE PIRATE - A pirate is known for his bad boy image underscored by his quest for wealth and new experiences. He will risk life and limb to achieve these. However, the pirate is also a man of skill knowing how to navigate through rough waters. Women want men who have an “edge” to them. Not so much that there are dangerous to be around, but mysterious enough to evoke curiosity and jealousy from others. Women like their men to be goal oriented and not afraid to explore uncharted territories and discover new things in the course of their relationship. Women also want their men to be able to be there for them and know how to bring them through the hard times that life can bring.
II. THE PRIEST. A priest is known for his vows and unwavering devotion to his belief. Priests are known for being committed and being confidants to parishioners. Women want men who will be exhibit the devotion of a priest in their relationship. They want men who will be committed to the relationship and its development. Women want men who they can confide in without fear of being judged or ridiculed. The same way a priest lives for God, women want men who count their relationship one of the most important parts of their lives, not an accessory.
III. THE POET. A poet is known for his sensitivity and ability to express himself. Men sometimes think that expressing themselves makes the “women,” weak, or vulnerable. Women want their men to be “men,” but they want them to be able to share their feelings, thoughts, and emotions; especially, where she is concerned. Women ask men repeatedly what they are thinking because they want to know where they stand in the man’s mind. Men who take on the persona of the poet will calm their woman’s fears and insecurities in the relationship, while strengthening its overall stability.
IV. THE POSTMAN. A postman is known for his ability to deliver the mail. Remember the postman’s creed to deliver the mail in the rain, snow, night, etc. Simply put, women want men who are to deliver on time. Regardless of the need or circumstance, women want men who will make every effort to come through for them and the survival of the relationship. Though men have their own concerns, women want to know that when a problem arises, their men will do what it takes to solve it.
There you have it. What your woman wants from you, even if she doesn’t say it.
February 19, 2009 at 3:41 pm
i could not agree more with these four personality types. So true!
February 19, 2009 at 5:32 pm
This 4 personas is the characterics of an angel .Man had limitations . Even though his thoughts and fantacies are numerous he could not fullfil all his woman’s need.So a woman must be realistic and don’t hope so much from a man . In the end she will be frustrated .As a human being man will be exhausted financially ,emotionally , mentally and physically . By that time only true love will bind man and woman together .
February 19, 2009 at 7:39 pm
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